Find your shape.

A short, honest quiz to point you toward the model that fits where you are right now. Answer for the version of you in the next twelve months, not the one you wish you were.

What do you most want from the relationship?

To think more rigorously about ideas: politics, philosophy, art, the world. One person who will challenge my thinking, week after week, for years. Peers who hold me to the work I keep saying I'll do. Honest counsel on the shape of my life, not just my work.

How often can you realistically show up?

Every two weeks: a real, recurring conversation. Every two weeks, with the discipline of commitments between. Once a month, with preparation in between. Once a year, but properly, with a written document.

How uncomfortable are you willing to be?

I want intellectual friction: disagreement that leaves a mark. I want to be visibly accountable for what I say I'll do. I want one person who will tell me when I'm wrong, often. I want to be asked the questions I've been avoiding asking myself.

Who, in your life, is the obvious starting point?

One specific person whose mind I most want to be in conversation with. Four to eight curious people from different fields I'd love in one room. Three to five peers in motion: actively building, writing, leading. A handful of people whose judgment I trust more than I trust my own.

What are you trying to change?

How I think: the quality and range of my mind. How I think, but with one person, for the rest of my life. What I actually do: closing the gap between intention and action. The trajectory of my whole life, and whether I'm on it on purpose.

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